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How to Get Up and Go When Your “Get Up” Has Gone

September 15, 2014

It’s Monday . . . the beginning of another week.  You may be bleary-eyed from your weekend, thinking about needing another day just to recover from the past two days.  It’s easier just to stay in bed rather than get up and go. We’ve all probably felt this way at one time or another. However, the motivation to get up and do something is low especially if you are feeling stressed, depressed, or anxious. You know you have to move, but you’re stuck and feel you can’t find the energy to do anything.

Here are some strategies to help you get going. Notice that it’s all about taking the first step to get started.

Create momentum.

Take one small step. Do something, anything. Remember Newton’s Law: Objects at rest tend to stay at rest. Objects in motion tend to stay in motion.
When starting an activity you don’t feel motivated to do, use the 10-minute rule. If after 10 minutes, you really don’t feel like you want to continue, stop. However, more often than not, I found that I’ve created enough momentum in 10 minutes to keep on going.

Take a shower and get dressed.

This sounds simple and basic, but for some, just taking a shower and getting dressed can be a chore. By taking this simple step, not only will feel better (think “fresh and clean”), but it “tells” your mind that you’re ready to do something (or go out—see below).

Go outside.

I lived in Vermont for a few years, so I know how depressing it can get when you are stuck inside due to bad weather. It’s easy to feel “unmotivated” when you are indoors and looking at the four walls of your room. Being outdoors, getting some fresh air, and Vitamin D sunshine tends to lift your spirits to get things done.

Follow a routine.

Create a schedule and follow it even if there are only a few tasks that you do or no matter how “mundane” or minimal they seem. Put them on your calendar. Think of the sense of accomplishment you’ll feel at the end of the day when you “check off” those tasks on your list (see below). You may be inspired to do more!

Think about how you’ll feel later.

How will you feel once you get going? or How will you feel if you don’t?  Will you feel gratified that you were able to get up and get things done or will you feel disappointed that you weren’t able to do this?  For some, the positive feeling of accomplishment may be a good motivator, for others, it may be the “pain” of disappointment that they want to avoid.

Waiting for “when I feel like it” may never come (or it may be a long time before it does).  Try any of these strategies and find your “get up and go!”

It’s Time to “Get-R-Done!”

March 15, 2012

I saw a clip of Larry the Cable Guy the other night while channel-surfing and heard his famous term, “Get-R-Done!” which reminded me:  Now that National Procrastination Week was over (if you missed it, it was last week), I seriously needed to get things done.  I have to admit that I have a tendency to procrastinate and need to keep myself on task to get items from my To-Do list to the Got-Done list rather than “waiting until the last minute” and dealing with the stress and anxiety.  Over the past few years, I’ve come up with some strategies that I use and have also recommended to clients.  See if any of these will work for you.  (If you’re not a procrastinator, good for you!)

  1. Break it down into smaller tasks.  If you are looking to tackle a “big project,” chances are when you look at the “whole thing,” you may feel overwhelmed and more apt to “put it off until later.”  However, breaking it down into smaller tasks will make it easier to complete.  Think of it not as one big project, but rather a bunch of smaller tasks.
  2. “Just do it.”  To quote the Nike ad, sometimes you just need to take action, however small (see #1), which then creates momentum.  I heard a writer say that the way in which he overcomes writer’s block is to just start writing regardless of whether he feels like it or not.  He admitted that the first few minutes of his writing is “gibberish,” but as he continues and gets into the “groove,” he ends up with something worthwhile.  Likewise, once you start something, you are more likely to continue.
  3. Good enough is good enough.  One reason people struggle with procrastination has to do with perfectionism.  That whatever they need to get done has to be “perfect” and therefore, they put off completing tasks because it’s “not good enough.”  Unfortunately, for perfectionists, no matter what they do or how good it is, it may never reach perfection.  More importantly, this is unattainable.  Ask yourself, “What is the price (or result) of not having anything done versus having something done?”
  4. Reward yourself.  Let’s face it, we tend to procrastinate on things we don’t want to do rather than things we like to do (at least I tend to do this).  Consequently, you probably need more motivation to get these tasks done.  To sustain your motivation, reward yourself once you complete a task (even the smaller ones).  Rewards don’t necessarily mean that you have to “buy stuff.”  Some of the rewards that have worked for me include taking a walk, listening to music, reading a good book, calling a friend, and getting a cup of coffee.

So, whatever your reason(s) for procrastinating, I hope you’ll try some of these strategies and “get-r-done!”

Need a Little Stress Relief?

April 25, 2011

Although the month of April is coming to an end, it’s actually Stress Awareness Month.  Rather interesting, as this is one of the most stressful months for a lot of people because of—you guessed it—tax returns are due!  Hopefully, since your tax returns were due (and sent) last week, you’re feeling a bit more relaxed?

If you’re still feeling a bit stressed and tense, try the following simple exercise.

Body Scan

Most of us tense our muscles unconsciously when we are stressed then wonder why we feel tight or sore.  Often, being tense becomes “natural” and thus, we become accustomed and desensitized to this.  Checking your body for any tension “tunes” you into any tightness you may be experiencing.  Once you are aware of any muscle tension, you can then do simple physical exercises to loosen these areas.  This exercise usually takes no more than five minutes to do.

  1. While sitting or standing, “scan” your body (from head to toe) for any tension you may be feeling.
  2. As you are checking/scanning your body for muscle tension, do some physical exercises or stretches to release any tightness such as opening or closing your mouth (to release tightened jaw muscles—do you tend to clench your teeth/jaw?), neck rolls or shoulder shrugs, shaking your hands and fingers (constantly tapping away on your keyboard?), stretching your back, rotating your ankles, etc.
  3. Do this exercise a few times throughout the day.

Feeling Stressed?

October 26, 2009

Are you feeling stressed and anxious?  My featured article in this month’s (October 2009) issue of Asia Trend Magazine (www.asiatrendmagazine.com) outlines strategies you can use to manage stress before it manages you.

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