Need a Little Stress Relief?

Posted April 25, 2011 by Linda T. Inatsuka, Ph.D.
Categories: Anxiety, Mental Health, Psychology, Relaxation, Stress Management

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Although the month of April is coming to an end, it’s actually Stress Awareness Month.  Rather interesting, as this is one of the most stressful months for a lot of people because of—you guessed it—tax returns are due!  Hopefully, since your tax returns were due (and sent) last week, you’re feeling a bit more relaxed?

If you’re still feeling a bit stressed and tense, try the following simple exercise.

Body Scan

Most of us tense our muscles unconsciously when we are stressed then wonder why we feel tight or sore.  Often, being tense becomes “natural” and thus, we become accustomed and desensitized to this.  Checking your body for any tension “tunes” you into any tightness you may be experiencing.  Once you are aware of any muscle tension, you can then do simple physical exercises to loosen these areas.  This exercise usually takes no more than five minutes to do.

  1. While sitting or standing, “scan” your body (from head to toe) for any tension you may be feeling.
  2. As you are checking/scanning your body for muscle tension, do some physical exercises or stretches to release any tightness such as opening or closing your mouth (to release tightened jaw muscles—do you tend to clench your teeth/jaw?), neck rolls or shoulder shrugs, shaking your hands and fingers (constantly tapping away on your keyboard?), stretching your back, rotating your ankles, etc.
  3. Do this exercise a few times throughout the day.

I scream, you scream, we all scream for ICE CREAM!

Posted July 16, 2010 by Linda T. Inatsuka, Ph.D.
Categories: Joy, Relaxation

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Did you know, the third Sunday in July, that’s THIS Sunday, July 18th is National Ice Cream Day?  Go out and enjoy an ice cream cone, sundae, or milk shake.  Take a friend (or two or more) and splurge for the day.  Get wild and try a new flavor.  There’s always the fat-free/reduced fat or sugar-free flavors for those of you who are watching what you eat.  Savor the creamy, dreamy, yummy-ness!

LTI

Feeling Lonely? Cheer Someone Up

Posted July 11, 2010 by Linda T. Inatsuka, Ph.D.
Categories: Depression, Loneliness, Relationship issues

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Today, July 11th is “Cheer Up the Lonely Day.”  It’s an opportunity for you to make a lonely person happy.  Or, how about just make someone else happy–it doesn’t matter if they’re lonely or not!  So, think about what you can do.   Here are a few suggestions to get you started:

  1. Spend some quality time with someone who is alone such as a co-worker.  Invite him/her out for a meal or for a cup of coffee.
  2. Visit with a neighbor who lives alone.
  3. Volunteer to visit patients/residents in a hospital or nursing facility and read to/with them.

Now, some of you may be asking, “What if I’m alone and feeling lonely?”  Well, the first thing is to get out of your home.  When you feel lonely, the tendency is to keep to yourself or isolate yourself.  This, in turn, will further increase your feelings of loneliness.  So what can you do?  Interestingly, the suggestions mentioned above will also be effective if you feel lonely.  Additionally, keep in mind the following:

  1. Take your mind off of yourself and onto others.  By helping others, your focus is on their needs rather than continuing to brood about your feelings of loneliness.   Let’s face it, whatever you focus on “expands,” so continuing to think about being alone will further increase those feelings.  In addition, when you’re helping others, you’re basically “connecting” with them.
  2. Go where there are people.  Sometimes just “being around” others, even if you don’t necessarily interact with them, helps you to feel connected.  Go to the mall, a park, a coffee shop, etc.  and sit amongst others.  The “energy” of the people around you can help you realize that you’re not alone in this world.
  3. Make an attempt to connect with others, no matter how small.  Smile at someone walking by or say hello to people who you meet (e.g., store clerks, other customers, etc.).

Use these suggestions, not just today, but regularly.  Cheer someone up and in the process you may even uplift your spirits.

Feeling Stressed?

Posted October 26, 2009 by Linda T. Inatsuka, Ph.D.
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Are you feeling stressed and anxious?  My featured article in this month’s (October 2009) issue of Asia Trend Magazine (www.asiatrendmagazine.com) outlines strategies you can use to manage stress before it manages you.

LTI

How to Survive Through the Tough Times

Posted October 3, 2009 by Linda T. Inatsuka, Ph.D.
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Learn how to cope and survive through these tough economic times.   Read my article in the September 2009 issue of Asia Trend Magazine www.asiatrendmagazine.com.  (It’s actually listed as the August 2009 issue on their website, but click on the magazine icon.)  I’ll have another article out in the October 2009 issue of the magazine.  Stay tuned.

LTI

Diving right in

Posted September 8, 2009 by Linda T. Inatsuka, Ph.D.
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Here I am “diving right in” and getting into social networking (at least one part of it).  Okay, this is a new experience for me, as I am “technologically-challenged,” but rather than wait until I’m an expert (i.e., wanting to have everything be perfect), I’m going to “just do it.”  Nothing like “baptism by fire!”  Just need to remember that this is “a work in progress.”